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Violet Blue's Open Source Sex
Category: Talk - Sex
Open Source Sex -- sophisticated erotica, smart sex ed, outrageous interviews and more with leading sex educator, award-winning author and celeb columnist Violet Blue ®. Find more of this podcast at OpenSourceSex.org.
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Open Source Sex 88: (Non-sex) The Panama Laugh - St. John of the Throwdown
Wed, 14 Sep 2011 09:54:58 +0000 (30.0 Mb)
Tonight's podcast is a non-sex short story about zombies - and me. Author of the (awesome) new zombie novel The Panama Laugh wrote a short story based on his novel's universe where a young female street punk in San Francisco goes up against a pack of zombie frat boys. The author Thomas Roche based the story on my very real life as a homeless teen here in SF. If you like action, horror and zombies (and you like me), you'll love it. If you don't like those things, tune in for the next podcast which I promise will be delightfully naughty and fun.
Mon, 06 Jun 2011 03:15:00 +0000 (7.1 Mb)
Get Total Flirt app for iPhone now in the Apple iTunes store for $0.99 - watch this saucy, short video trailer I made and see why I'm so excited about my first app! It’s like having a concise, interactive version of Total Flirt (the book - http://amzn.to/kzunif ) in your pocket or purse.
The Total Flirt app is an in-the-moment flirting guide. Use Total Flirt to choose your own adventure, and flirt – with success. With Total Flirt as your pocket wingmate, instantly dial up tricks and tips for every situation you’ll encounter when out on the prowl.
Secrets of pick up artists are shared in the app that tells you exactly what to do and when to do it. Start with an environment test to rate your chances of success before you make a move. Total Flirt tells you the best way to position yourself, how to proceed when your flirt-target is alone or in a group, and instructions for on-the-spot seduction with or without words. Instantly call up exact phrases and openers to make a connection with anyone you set your sights on.
This app guides you through the whole encounter: consult Total Flirt for instructions on when and how to size them ...
Wed, 09 Mar 2011 07:52:00 +0000 (24.2 Mb)
Learn how to flirt with geeks in this episiode, based on six years of research on flirting and pick-ip arts, plus get opening lines that don't suck and tips for turning fliritng into dating. Find more at thetotalflirt.com/SXSEXY.
This episode is the audio version of SXSW 2011 Interactive geek flirting tips written especially for the event (known as Spring Break for Geeks).
At thetotalflirt.com there are also three explict sexy geek erotica stories in different delightful flavors. To find more of the free materials I put together for Sexy Geeks, visit thetotalflirt.com/sxsexy. This URL is entirely mobile friendly, including the safer sex charts.
At thetotalflirt.com/SXSEXY you'll find the text version of this podcast, sex emergency resources for SXSW attendees of all genders and orientations, and explicit geeky erotica. Oh and the ingredients for a geek sexual survival kit. Oh, and a special discount code just for sexy geeks at Babeland.com - find my nerdy sex gear picks at babeland.com/violetblue.
Sat, 05 Mar 2011 06:26:45 +0000 (9.8 Mb)
This is an episode of sex answers. Tonight's topics include a woman who wants her boyfriend to be more dominant, a lady who is worried about vaginal looseness, a man who has wet dreams as an adult, and a girl whose boyfriend had sex outside the relationship - she wants to know what STDs or STIs she's at risk for. These anonymous questions come from my professional sex ed work; I thought it was time to share.
* Violet Blue - tinynibbles.com
* Books in this episode: , Yes Sir, Sexual Fantasy for Couples, Fetish Sex: A Guide, Best Women's Erotica 2011.
Sun, 13 Feb 2011 08:22:09 +0000 (94.0 Mb)
Delightful, de-lovely, and a little bit devious: my new book Total Flirt is now on sale. Find out more including the Apple and Android app at thetotalflirt.com. In this saucy video trailer, I tell you all about how this book - six years in the making - is an authentic, practical and slightly devious flirting manual for women. It is our answer to "The Game" and pick-up artist tricks, and based on research, studies and infiltrarion of pick-up artist's secret societies - it delivers.
ABOUT THE BOOK:
Total Flirt is packed with tricks and tips for every situation you’ll encounter when out on the prowl. Secrets of pick-up artists are explained and styled for the girl who wants more out of life.
Spend 20 minutes with a chapter in Total Flirt and learn:
* Two distinctive ways to flirt, and why you need to know the difference.* Total Flirt relies on the science of kinesics, the study of body language and its hidden messages: learn how to communicate magnetism and seduce your target – or get rid of someone – without words.* Take style quizzes to see what kind of flirt you are, and what kind you could be.* Master the art of “speed fli...
Thu, 09 Dec 2010 09:09:42 +0000 (18.8 Mb)
This is an episode of sex answers. Tonights topics include what to do with an uncut penis, what to do when you're a woman who wants your lover to change his oral sex techniques, women wanting pornogrpahy, and a question from a woman whose boyfriend wants her to be a domaintrix in the bedroom. These anonymous questions come from my professional sex ed work; I thought it was time to share.
* Violet Blue - tinynibbles.com
* Books in this episode: Sexual Fantasy for Couples, Fetish Sex: A Guide, Best Bondage Erotica 2011, Yes Ma'am. See also: Ultimate Guide to Fellatio, Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus.
Sat, 11 Sep 2010 09:19:00 +0000 (24.9 Mb)
In a recent article, I reviewed the very sophisticated adult film "An Open Invitiation" which is a love story of one couple's journey into swinging, in San Francisco.
Links for this podcast include:
Open Source Sex episode 20 where I tell you exactly how to have a threesome.
Open Source Sex episode 43 which is a reading of explicit erotic threesome story "Cast of Three"
My review of "An Open Invitiation" (with exclusive, explicit gallery and trailer) -- link NSFW.
The webiste for "An Open Invitiation" -- link for adults only.
Our Porn, Ourselves -- a non-sexual website for women who watch porn.
Website for sex educator Thomas Roche, also quoted in this episode.
In Scientific American, Jesse Bering's Polyamory chic, gay jealousy and the evolution of a broken heart
Tristan Taormino's book Opening Up and my book on Sexual Fantasy for Couples.
Thu, 09 Sep 2010 08:58:00 +0000 (27.1 Mb)
Learn how to kiss: something different on Open Source Sex - a short and sweet video about my new book on kissing. Saucy, sexy, smart: Urban Outfitters calls my new book Seal it with a Kiss "The kissing bible." Find out why in this video, which includes kissing tips for virgins and kissing tricks to make your kisses unforgettable. Lots of tips and kissing how-to in this funny video trailer for the #1 book on kissing.
Find the book at http://vbly.us/swak (Amazon)
Get more info in my complete online kissing resource with tutorials, videos and step-by-step guides: http://www.tinynibbles.com/how-to-kiss
Find more Violet Blue at tinynibbles.com
Follow: @VioletBlue
Facebook: Official Violet Blue page
Mon, 17 May 2010 21:39:00 +0000 (10.6 Mb)
Lately, Apple CEO Steve Jobs has been very vocal about his brand and its relationship to pornography, but he's left us in the dark as to why he seems to be mentioning porn at every turn. In this podcast, we go back to a simpler time when Apple appeared to be more tolerant, and I read my San Francisco Chronicle article "How to Seduce a Mac Geek."
Mentioned:
Ryan Block, gdgt
Ryan Tate, Gawker
See also: MacLife: Of Apps and Men
See also: The Unofficial Apple Weblog: Violet Blue Macworld Interview
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Tue, 17 Nov 2009 03:39:00 +0000 (16.6 Mb)
It's here! Lush, gorgeous, arousing: Best Women's Erotica 2010 (also: UK)! In this episode I give you a taste of each story in my handpicked, heart and soul collection of the best erotica by women, for women that the globe has to offer. It might be the most daring entry in the series yet.* * * * * * *
Violet Blue: tinynibbles.com
More audio + ebooks: DigitaPub.com
Click here to launch iTunes: Open Source Sex
Thank you Libsyn.com.
Mon, 09 Mar 2009 08:17:00 +0000 (11.4 Mb)
This is "Lost at Sea" by Peony. It is from Best Women's Erotica 2008 and is not typical fare for this podcast (or for the erotica series; it is not explicit).
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Fri, 05 Dec 2008 08:27:00 +0000 (12.4 Mb)
It wasn't supposed to be on shelves until December 11, but it’s shipping *now* (and I got my hands on a red-hot copy). Best Women’s Erotica 2009
is my newest anthology — explicit lit by women, written by astoundingly
talented women from all over the world. It’s so hot that when I
read the first story in the collection to my lover, I was instantly
jumped and deliciously molested. True story. I’ll do a podcast of
Valerie Alexander’s “Fly” later. For now, hear why I’m so freaking out
excited to see the fruits of a year spent editing this book made into
reality — I'm reading the intense introduction I wrote.
Make no mistake, it’s a dirty, naughty book. One filled with joy,
and stories that stay with you for a long time. And names you will
recognize such as Trixie Fontaine (AKA Tasty Trixie), Donna George Storey, Elizabeth Coldwell, Ms. Naughty, Scarlett French, Sommer Marsden, Jaqueline Applebee, Janine Ashbless and more — plus, several newcomers being published for the first time who will be names to look out for.
It’s on Amazon right now in paper version and Kindle version.
Now, l...
Thu, 20 Nov 2008 05:02:00 +0000 (9.0 Mb)
So, Bill O'Reilly wants to talk about the evils of San Francisco? He really has a hard-on for talking about what he sees as my filthy dirty sex-and-LGBT drenched city, and his fake documentary shows just what a fetish he's got. Yes, it's all about the sex -- our San Francisco Values. So Bill -- this one's for you. Next time, say it to my face. We have enough hate in the world right now. I'd be happy to "scare you straight."Hope you all like it; it's my sermon. After this, more sexy podcasty goodness is on the way, dear listeners.Love,Violet* * * * * * *My podcast knows that love spreads with Libsyn.com
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Wed, 18 Jun 2008 23:11:00 +0000 (73.8 Mb)
The most amazing sexual privacy online discussion you'll ever hear. This is the panel I organized and moderated at SXSW: Interactive 2008, including a cyberlawyer (Jason Schultz, EFF), a security expert / hacker (Jonathan Moore, 0x0000), an outed sex blogger (Zoe Margolis, Girl With A One Track Mind), and a Gawker editor (John D'Addario, Fleshbot.com). It's just over an hour long, and it's riveting! Thanks to SXSW for letting me share the file with you. Here's the description:Can anyone really be sexually anonymous online? Being outed, thinking
you’re “anonymous", trolls and stalkers taking advantage of online
communities, porn laws resulting in performers being stalked, Google’s
history logs tracking all of us, and paying for adult goods and
services online safely: Internet sexual privacy affects everyone – and
our rights. This panel brings together a spectrum of views on sexual
privacy and identity, including controversial sex bloggers, a cyberlaw
expert and a hacker who works for a social networking site. We’ll
discuss and demonstrate how easy it is to lose control of your sexual
identity online – and how to get it back, or ke...
Mon, 09 Jun 2008 20:43:00 +0000 (11.8 Mb)
In this long-awaited Open Source Sex episode, learn how to plan an
erotic encounter with roles (slight roles or elaborate ones), how to
time sexual surprises so they come out perfect, how to add a delicious
climax to your sexual encounter, the perfect locations for certain
types of erotic scenarios, and how to have a public sex scene -- and
make it safe and unforgettable. I just released the audiobook Erotic Role Play: A Guide For Couples, and I'm so excited I wanted to give a chapter away! This is chapter 5, and I hope you like it. I'm also giving away the erotic role play quiz for couples -- print it out, circle your answers and then share your sexy homework. When I did it with my sweetie, I got a few interesting surprises... :)For more info on my new DRM-free audiobook (10 MP3 chapters, over 2 hours of ideas, advice, and explicit erotica), read this:
Erotic Role Play: A Guide for Couples
by Violet Blue is nine big chapters of tips, ideas and practical advice
on how to turn up the heat in your sexual repertoire. Erotic role-play
is when you and your lover play roles and act out sexual fantasies:
Blue details exactly how role-play makes hot s...
Fri, 30 Nov 2007 06:28:00 +0000 (7.4 Mb)
Just for fun, last night after I recorded my new sex ed how-to audiobook How to Kiss, I set aside this chapter to share. It's chapter 4, where I detail all the different types of kisses: the good, the bad, and the scary! Be prepared: in some places, I giggle uncontrollably -- it was *that* kind of reading (the fun kind). The whole book is sexed-up: it also features two very explicit short erotica stories with pleanty of oral action. Yum! Find more of my inexpensive, DRM-free audiobooks and sex ed ebooks at digitapub.com.Details:
Sex educator Violet Blue explains throughout 9 audio chapters
exactly how to make the most of the first kiss to the hottest makeout
sessions. With a warm, playful tone and a lot of techniques, Blue
details types of kisses, how to flirt using your mouth, kissing
etiquette, erogenous zones, how to ask for a kiss with and without
words and much more. Ever wonder about hickies, bites, cold sores,
kissing bugs or how to deal with a bad kisser? Sweet nuzzly kisses,
all-out French kissing and everything in between are in this 9-chapter,
DRM-free MP3 audiobook. Blue also reads two explicit, kiss-focused
erotic short stories fr...
Thu, 18 Oct 2007 07:52:00 +0000 (7.5 Mb)
Last night at the DNA Lounge in San Francisco, I gave a five-minute talk for the nationwide O'Reilly Radar Ignite series -- my talk was called "Porn or Not?" and discussed how online 2.0 social networking communities (like Flickr) are trying to police their users for adult (or "offensive" sexual) content, and how that's working out for them. Or not. Mostly not. I had 20 slides that were automatically advanced every 15 seconds, and by the end of the talk I had veered so hysterically (and hilariously) just to the right of my script, that I ended up on the stage floor on my (stripey-socked) knees... Oh, just listen and enjoy! The place was packed and the audience really loved it. Yay! * * * * * *
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Thu, 11 Oct 2007 00:47:00 +0000 (8.1 Mb)
The exciting launch of my sex-ed digital media empire, digitapub.com! This podcast is the introduction to my nine (9) chapter audiobook, "open source sex :: pleasure zone basics". It's DRM-free MP3 files for $5 that cover a wide variety of sex ed topics, with techniques and my usual silliness. I have audiobooks for couples on the way, in addition to e-books (in a variety of formats) featuring more sex ed and erotica -- all cheap and shareable. True "open source sex", as I explain in this podcast. Yay! A funny book-tech-nerd note: this might be the first .zip file with an official ISBN number. Here are the details about the audiobook this podcast talks about, forgive the third person sales text:
Violet Blue’s popular Open Source Sex podcast has educated millions. “open source sex ed audio :: pleasure zone basics?
is a 9-chapter audiobook that combines select podcasts with exciting
new material. Learn all about male and female physiology for pleasure —
that’s what the good parts are to touch, and how they like to be
touched. You’ll also hear about how they taste, and exactly what to do
when you want perform oral sex (cunni...
Sat, 18 Aug 2007 08:49:00 +0000 (15.8 Mb)
A total, ultimate primer on the G-spot: what it is, how to find it, how to stimulate it, what it feels like, recommended toys and more -- a lot of info, but just a taste of what's in my new book The Smart Girl's Guide to the G-Spot. The book has waaaaay more, including g-spot positions for couples and all about female ejaculation. Yay!
Read more about the G-spot on my slippery delicious G-spot info page, with book excerpts and additional links.
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Fri, 08 Jun 2007 22:50:00 +0000 (7.7 Mb)
Gimme some sugar, baby -- here's a quick and sweet lecture about playing with the prostate for pleasure. Yum!
This podcast is also a textcast: click the center of your iPod's
trackwheel three times to read the text as you listen to me talk.* * * * * * *The Anus and ProstateSurprisingly little is known about the prostate gland's pleasure purposes. It produces prostatic fluid (the clear liquid that carries sperm during ejaculation), it grows as a man ages (sometimes dangerously), and in case you missed the last podcast -- it can feel really, really good when sexually stimulated. Prostatic fluid comprises up to a third of the liquid volume in ejaculate. It’s clear that it plays an important role in the male pleasure cycle, and it has become touted as the male g-spot. Some call it the "p-spot". When a man reaches the point of orgasmic “no return? (ejaculatory inevitability), the prostate gland joins the seminal vesicles and other ducts in a little do-si-do of pleasant-feeling spasms and rhythmic contractions to create ejaculate -- and this is before the contractions of orgasm. If you are stimulating a man’s prostate prior to and during ejaculation, you can often...
Fri, 08 Jun 2007 22:36:00 +0000 (12.1 Mb)
Guess what -- I'm back. It's been quite a ride during the break, and thank you for sticking around (or welcome back if you took a break as well). This new episode has me taking you on a tour of male sexual anatomy for pleasure. From front door to back, I explain physiology and pleasure, and what parts like to be touched, and how.
This podcast is also a textcast: click the center of your iPod's
trackwheel three times to read the text as you listen to me talk.* * * * * * *Male pleasure podcastThe System: Penis, Testicles, Pelvis, Anus: Prostate in the CenterContrary to marketing stereotypes, men cannot be stimulated to orgasm with horsepower, touchdowns or swimsuit editions -- the wick of Eros may be lit above the shoulders, but it glows at crotch level, thank you very much. You might think that it's a simple affair, that like all of its correspondingly yawn-worthy phallic allegories of guns and hoses, getting a guy off is as simple as "unzip fly, aim, and shoot". But as we'll see, a cigar isn't always a cigar, and not only is the male pleasure system deliciously connected and complex, but the packaging is exciting, versatile, and rejoices in delightful deviance. M...
Mon, 09 Oct 2006 07:21:00 +0000 (15.7 Mb)
Seduction and flirting, part two. In this part two, I
explain the powerful tool known as smiling, how to start a conversation, what to talk about, how to tell if they're interested in you (or not) and how to stop it when you decide you don;t like them. And -- I totally lose it cracking up laughing near the end, a sign of danger for whoever I flirt with and seduce next... These seduction and flirting podcasts are a giggly, fun and informative explanation all about flirting and seducing someone you're
interested in, whether they're a stranger or a long-term lover.
Everyone loves being seduced, and you don't need to resort to cheap
tricks or hypnotism to make a hot, fast connection.
This podcast is also a textcast: click the center of your iPod's
trackwheel three times to read the text as you listen to me talk. I
veer off the text quite a few times and crack myself up more than once,
so consider yourself warned...
Seduction and Flirting: Part Two
Smiling is a powerful thing. The easiest way to disarm, relax and intrigue a anyone is with a smile. It sounds simple and corny, but when you're flirting, a soft or slight smile danc...
Mon, 09 Oct 2006 07:05:00 +0000 (13.6 Mb)
Seduction and flirting, part one. This is a giggly, fun and informative set of podcasts all about flirting and seducing someone you're interested in, whether they're a stranger or a long-term lover. Everyone loves being seduced, and you don't need to resort to cheap tricks or hypnotism to make a hot, fast connection. In pasrt one, I explain confidence (and how to fake it), body language (with tips celebrities use to get noticed), how to make an entrance, and how to use eye contact -- even if you're really shy.This podcast is also a textcast: click the center of your iPod's trackwheel three times to read the text as you listen to me talk. I veer off the text quite a few times and crack myself up more than once, so consider yourself warned...Seduction and Flirting: Part OneYour goals don't need to be world domination or creating an army of male slaves -- though all skill levels are encouraged to apply. Perhaps you're tired of being the too-quiet one in the group and for a change you'd like to be the attention-magnet for an evening. Or maybe you're on the prowl for a down-and-dirty fling. You don't even have to dress saucy to be a first-rate flirt; your powers to attract and seduce ar...
Thu, 28 Sep 2006 07:41:00 +0000 (17.0 Mb)
Female anatomy for pleasure! This episoide is my lecture on female genital anatomy -- not for reproduction, as in every other treatment of the topic, but instead *purely* for sexual pleasure. Learn more (and plenty of oral techniques) in my book Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus, and enjoy this textcast by reading the transcript below, or on your iPod by clicking the center trackwheel three times.See anatomical drawings and read erotica about cunnilingus on my site at: http://www.tinynibbles.com/cunmain.html* * * * * * *Female Anatomy for PleasureWe all know about reproduction -- the what and how babies are made and birthed in relation to our genitals. Even if we're fuzzy on a few details, most adult women have a pretty good idea about how our pussies work for baby-making, or at least know our way around some kind of birth control. And pretty much the majority of us have self-preserving knowledge about sexually transmitted infections and staying safe (or managing a virus, or curing an infection). The problem is, even if this information came in bits and pieces, the easy (and happy) way or through difficult learning lessons, none of this tells us how to have fun with our clits, vag...
Fri, 15 Sep 2006 23:23:00 +0000 (17.4 Mb)
Prostate pleasure for couples! To celebrate my brand-new book The Adventurous Couple's Guide to Sex Toys, listen to me smilingly talk you through an intro to male anal pleasure from the "bend over boyfriend" chapter. Here, you'll find out about prostate pleasure, how couples can get started and have a lot of fun with male anal penetration, and a strap-on sex primer for couples. There's a lot more detailed info about this *delightful* sex act in the book, and you can hear hot erotica about it in Open Source Sex episodes 8, 31 and 40.This is a textcast; if you got this podcast in iTunes and want to read along (or refer back to the information later), click the center of your iPod's trackwheel three times and scroll through the text at your leisure.Also: I have a seperate feed for erotica now at http://violet.libsyn.comText for Open Source Sex 45Straight couples have reinvented anal sex, and the "Bend Over Boyfriend" phenomenon brought on by the how-to video of the same name have skyrocketed harness and dildo sales to heterosexual couples across the nation. Perhaps the fact that straight men are interested in receptive anal exploration with their female partners co...
Sun, 09 Jul 2006 07:16:00 +0000 (13.7 Mb)
I'm thrilled -- thrilled! -- about the arrival of my newest book, The Smart Girl's Guide to Porn! Tonight I thought it would be fun to read the introduction to the book, where I explain how I got to be a professional female porn reviewer and sex blogger, my sad-yet-funny trials trying to find good porn, and why --and how -- porn can be hot and lame and fun all at the same time. It's that fun, and that personal.I hope you like it; it means a lot to me.Check out the entire table of contents for the book in this blog post:http://www.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2006/07/the_smart_girls.html
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Wed, 14 Jun 2006 04:28:00 +0000 (25.6 Mb)
More from my NPR pirate radio interview series: an interview with my best friend Thomas Roche! I get him to spill about his mad skillz with the necrophilia fetish lecture at San Francisco Sex Education (where we both teach and he's volunteered for ten years); then we digress into discussing erotica, crime writing and its seedy/inspiring erotic elements (yay tits and gunpowder!), his work as the editor at Eros Zine, and of course -- porn! We have a sweetly antagonistic friendship, and he just wrote a bunch of hot stories for my upcoming sex guidebook Fetish Sex: An Erotic Guide for Couples.Thomas' site is SkidRoche.com. He's also a pinup photographer and has shot me several times over the years -- you can see some of these sets in his gallery, and in my galleries vegas pinups, suicide reject, and friday the 13th.Also:
NPR is a community not-for-profit volunteer organization and they're
hosting my filthy dirty interviews for free. They're having a hard time
coming up with rent for one month this summer -- it's $800 -- so if you
can spare ten bucks, please donate it to NPR!
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Thu, 18 May 2006 06:04:00 +0000 (16.0 Mb)
In the ongoing interview series I'm doing at NPR, this has to be one of my very favorite interviews *ever*. Just listen to me talk to Pink and White Productions' Shine Louise Houston and see if you can't resist laughing -- Shine is the producer, director and creator behind what is one of the hottest, most authentic lesbian porn companies around, and it's all DIY, indy porn. Listen and see what I mean; Shine talks about why fluffy-haired long-fingernailed "lesbians" in regular porn just don't seem to reflect how girls are having sex with each other (really?), amazing behind the scenes tales of fisting and female ejaculation on the set of her cult hit porn film The Crash Pad, what's in her future and all about that crazy party I went to a week ago... She invited me to a party, things got out of hand with fists and lesbian porn stars and bread products and I took pictures... So much fun. Look at all the images I shot at that wild party in these two galleries: Pink and White Party; More Pink and White Party. But really, listen to the podcast and see how we crack ourselves up so bad about stuffing loaves where bread has never been before that we make actual snorting noises.MP3...
Wed, 03 May 2006 04:15:00 +0000 (15.4 Mb)
An interview with Tristan Taormino! Part of the NPR radio series of interviews I'm doing -- this time, Tristan called in from rainy Brooklyn, New York to tell us how to prepare for first-time anal sex, all about enemas (!), anal sex and pregnancy, her new Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women 2nd ed. (and all the cool new information in it), her extremely hot video House of Ass and her new contract at Vivid Video to make explicit educational movies! We covered a lot of ground and could've talked for another half-hour, for sure. These interviews are done in a storefront window in the "hip" Mission district here in SF, so imagine the looks I got when people walked by and heard "anal orgasms" coming from the speakers...Her House of Ass video is one of the best porn videos I've ever seen. Seriously. Watch the trailer @ her site, puckerup.com (where you can also download the trailer to your iPod). Also be sure to visit Tristan's MySpace page.MP3 not enough for you? Watch and listen with the video slideshow version of this podcast at:http://media.libsyn.com/media/violetblue/open_source_sex_37.m4vThe images are from the House of Ass video. If you'd rather listen to the ...
Tue, 25 Apr 2006 21:34:00 +0000 (14.6 Mb)
Michael Soldier -- one year later! The first interview I did with Michael a year ago (almost to the day) was really popular, so I thought it would be fun to bring him back. Hilarious, crazy stories from our favorite erotic masseuse and gay porn star, including on-set fluffing tidbits, why a local SF Supervisor called Michael a nasty word in front of a huge crowd and John Waters (hint: it has to do with naked jumprope and a Santa hat), and more. This is in the NPR interview series I'm doing for the next few weeks, so the format sounds different than my usual podcast, which is a nice change.
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Sun, 23 Apr 2006 06:19:00 +0000 (18.1 Mb)
A compelling interview with Adam Zimbardo, MFT, a 16-year veteran from San Francisco Sex Information and the front lines of nationwide anonymous sex advice; a sobering state of the nation address on sex ed in America. Do you have safe sex? No one is -- so now what do we do? Listen to our interview, which manages to be funny and intense at the same time. This is on NPR, so the format sounds different than my usual podcast, which isn't such a bad thing...
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Thu, 23 Mar 2006 06:18:00 +0000 (9.9 Mb)
How do *you* taste? Taste of a man and taste of a woman -- this is my lecture all about the tastes and scents to be found between the thighs, and how to make yourself taste yummier, naturally. I'm getting ready for a new semester of lectures at SFSI and thought this would be a nice, er, warmup! Especially with the lovely photo (in the MP3 file) by Siege @ nerve.com. Read oodles more about oral sex in my Ultimate Guide to Fellatio and Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus.
As per the directions in the podcast, here are the ingredients for the Super Spunk Smoothie (it works with all genders) -- drink for three days and avoid the things I mention in the podcast, though skipping asparagus is a no-brainer...
Super Spunk Smoothie
1 cup pineapple, fresh, canned or juice
1 cup mango juice
1 banana
1/2 cucumber, peeled and seeded
1/2 tsp fresh ginger
1/2 tsp vanilla extract
2 Tbs honey
Blend all ingredients in a blender until smooth. Drink immediately. Repeat daily (and perform your own scientific oral sex taste tests) for best results!
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Fri, 03 Mar 2006 21:34:00 +0000 (10.7 Mb)
Unsafe sex products! This is the audio version of a new page you'll see in my website's left sidebar, labeled "unsafe". It's required reading for all sex shoppers; I explain sex products that can hurt you, how they work (or don't work) and why novelty companies make products that can harm you. You'll never want to use Anal-Eze, you'll freak out about Nonoxynol-9 and you might want to upgrade your toy collection.
Text transcript at www.tinynibbles.com/unsafe.html
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Fri, 13 Jan 2006 07:50:00 +0000 (14.2 Mb)
Tie me up? How about bondage and kink for the rest of us...! You don't need to know complicated knots or BDSM lingo to have a hot time tying up your sweetie and having fun with them, so here I talk about what nasty and sweet things you can do do with someone who's all tied up -- ice cubes to oral sex and beyond. And I have *a lot* of fun ideas. Then, to get you in the mood I read a really delicious light bondage and first time anal sex story from Alison Tyler's Best Bondage Erotica. Also, I had an energy drink before the podcast, so decide for yourself if podcasting, hot sex talk, and energy drinks mix, or are a lethal combination...
Mentioned in this podcast, for further study:
Graydancer's Rope Weekly
Happy birthday to sexy Minx at Polyamory Weekly!
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Sat, 24 Dec 2005 04:07:00 +0000 (16.9 Mb)
On a cold San Francisco night, I read "Sperm Bank Teller" by Polly Enmity, from Best Sex Writing 2005. When I found out that someone I knew not only works in a really dysfunctional local sperm bank -- but that she also regularly has sex with "donors" -- I asked her to write about it for my book. It's all real and all true, from the bizarre way donors are screened to the blowjobs in the donors' rooms.
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Tue, 22 Nov 2005 06:31:00 +0000 (15.2 Mb)
With a little nervousness and a lot of enthusiasm, I have a late night call with adult film legend and pro-sex, pro-porn sex educator Nina Hartley. We discuss how US obscenity laws are like organized crime tactics; her delicious new film "Nina Hartley's Guide to Erotic Bondage" that bends the rules of romance, bondage and sex; her amazing upcoming book and the roads that led her to becoming a pleasure activist; how she deals with anti-porn detractors and much much more.
Click here for the delicious video version (.m4v file), with an accompanying slideshow featuring nearly 50 ultra-hot stills from her video.
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Thu, 10 Nov 2005 01:45:00 +0000 (16.2 Mb)
Enjoy this explicit how-to lecture on threesomes! Learn how to make them happen, avoid jealously, what to do when you're all naked together, where and how to find people to play with, and what to say to get everything started... And what to do when things don't turn out the way you'd planned. All this, plus lightly cheesy erotica by Alison Tyler and music by my beloved friend, Tim North.
Learn more, and how to take this fantasy further in my Guide to Sexual Fantasy.
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Tue, 23 Aug 2005 23:34:00 +0000 (13.6 Mb)
Returning from a bout with the flu, I present a lecture I usually give to San Francisco Sex Information hotline students all about the strange, bizarre, sexy and fascinating world of sexual fetishes -- with a special focus on making fetish sex hot. But first, we open with some small talk to get you in the mood and a few interesting words about democratic sex education by Minx from the podcast Polyamory Weekly.
Things I talk about in this podcast:
The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy
Loonerz
Dark Garden
Sexuality.org: Fetishes
Yahoo: Fetish sites
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Sat, 16 Jul 2005 01:05:00 +0000 (12.1 Mb)
Back safe from my non-relaxing trip to London, you might as well call me little Miss Ranty McRant in this podcast; I talk about landing right when the tube is blown up, then talk about the iTunes sex podcast issues, rant about a porn magazine, then read some erotica that gets my temperature up...
Here are the other podcasts I mention in the iTunes rant:
http://gaysexcapades.blogspot.com/
http://mxlpodcast.blogspot.com/
http://www.rubbercanada.com/
Violet Blue
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Mon, 20 Jun 2005 01:37:00 +0000 (32.6 Mb)
Reading the Dorkbot SF teledildonics presentation... but unlike the lecuture I don't have remote sex with anyone (that I know of)!
Violet Blue
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Tue, 24 May 2005 20:33:00 +0000 (25.1 Mb)
Live from Duboce Park in San Francisco! Complete with dogs, buses and birds, I took my iBook to the park this morning and read an essay I wrote about my harrowing first on-set porn experience...
Violet Blue
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Tue, 26 Apr 2005 04:23:00 +0000 (30.4 Mb)
Hot three-way action interview with Dr. Carol Queen and indy porn filmmaker Tony Comstock; last of the pirate radio series.
the pirates:
http://www.conceptualart.org/npr/
Carol Queen:
http://www.carolqueen.com
Tony Comstock:
http://www.comstockfilms.com
Violet Blue
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Wed, 13 Apr 2005 06:35:00 +0000 (33.2 Mb)
This is the second of three "Porn Chat With Violet Blue" shows, when
Neighborhood Public Radio pirated a local frequency in commemoration of the FCC's rulings on Janet Jackson's Super Bowl nipple slip, and since they were calling it their "NPR Indecency Series" they asked me to come on and host my own show for a few weekends. To make it as indecent as possible I interviewed Best Gay Male Porn Performer 2004 Michael Soldier -- and it was dirty, dirty, and fun. I asked multi-award winning sex performer Michael what you need to do to get ready to "do" porn, how to shoot the biggest loads, all about his weird experiences as a gay male erotic masseuse and much much more.
Violet Blue
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Thu, 07 Apr 2005 21:20:00 +0000 (37.4 Mb)
Listen to a pirate radio interview I did recently with Jack Shamama, a porn scriptwriter who also works over at gaypornblog.com. A local group called Neighborhood Public Radio pirated a local frequency in commemoration of the FCC's rulings on Janet Jackson's Super Bowl nipple slip, and since they were calling it their "NPR Indecency Series" they asked me to come on and host my own show for a few weekends. This is the first of three "Porn Chat With Violet Blue" shows, where I interview Jack about what you have to do to write a porn script, safe sex ignorance in porn and much much more. We had a blast, especially since the show was done in a storefront window in a busy San Francisco neighborhood, with huge speakers blasting our conversation out onto the street -- we had a huge crowd, and motorists were slowing down to listen. Oh, and the awards we talk about in the interview: he won best screenplay.
Violet Blue
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Sat, 26 Mar 2005 01:37:00 +0000 (4.0 Mb)
This one's how-to on sexual fantasies: dealing with weird fantasies, getting ideas for fantasies, and sharing them with a lover. Woo-hoo!
Violet Blue
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